Sinful Sunday: Tying One On

I was playing with bondage this past week, re-tying the knots in my kirada to allow for the clit piercing and also to make the back more decorative...

I succeeded in one aim at least...

still need to re-work the crotch :p
But I have to wait for the rope impressions to fade from the last try... I had the kirada tied for more than 24 hours and some areas are still quite sensitive!





I was also playing with wrist and ankle binding using bungie cords which do a nice job and felt absolutely wonderful :)

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Sinful Sunday: Toying Around

Last week I showed you the aftermath...

Now for some of the fun of the scene :)

A frozen treat

That lights up and vibrates with the right addition

Meanwhile, a little e-stim going on in the hills

The results... should I say it? were positively electrifying :)

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HNT: Patriotic Lingerie

Back to my lingerie drawer for a photoshoot... feeling patriotic this week in my intimate wear.  Don't I look Dommy though?

An online Master I was playing with some time ago expressed horror that I didn't have my very own flogger, so I rectified that bit of negligence this past week with a beaded cat o'nine and have been duly practicing on myself.  As the sales tag stated, "It hurts so good!"

See how to play at being "Half-Nekkid" here...

Wanton Wednesday: RIP and Roar

First, I must say R.I.P. to Old Faithful, who finally gave out (well before his time!) under too much wear and tear...

R.I.P. dear old thing... you served me well!

And now I must introduce his replacement, and oh my my... I'm already in love!!!

Meet Golden Boy :)

He can work alone or with a bullet device that came along... it has 10 different settings!  The bullet fits snugly in the ring and does quite a nice job, I must say.  Golden Boy is made of handworked glass... I can heat him up or freeze him safely for more sensation fun!

I picked him up Friday (he came highly recommended by the friendly store clerk who also put him through his paces for me and let me play with him before I took him home) and we've already had several sessions together... this is a pic from one of the first since I was doing a general photo shoot and then got to playing around ;)
There's a click through to later in my play... yes, the bullet glows in the dark!

I think we'll be very happy together ;)

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Sinful Sunday: Rope Collection

The toy bag has been getting ever bigger as I've been adding some new things to it...

quite a bit of rope, actually... it no longer fits in the toy bag proper and has to be carried separately!!

Since I'm still solo, I've obviously been doing a good bit of self-bondage lately :)

There's something so sensual about bondage... the feel of rope against your skin... strategically places knots making themselves known in sensitive areas... and as you move about, the rope resists delightfully against certain areas... keeping you mindful.

Perhaps later this week I'll give you a glimpse of what I've been up to... ;)

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Fire in The Hole

I fell onto concrete the other evening, taking out both knees and one hip which is about par for the course with me; I’ll be caning it (albeit not in the fun kink sense of the word!) for the next however long… it doesn’t stop me from playing, however.  Taz went out of town on Friday for the weekend and whilst I was too tired and sore to play that night I happily hauled out the toy bag last night for a go.  The kids stayed back with me this time so I couldn’t set up in the living room as in previous play sessions but the master bedroom door was locked and I was careful to stay fairly quiet.

I was in the mood for some intense sensations and wanted to abuse myself a bit.  Among some recent acquisitions for the toy bag I had picked up some liquid liniment rather cheaply and thought that I would try it on the labia first before perhaps going deep with it as lube for a dildo.  I tried it and it was indeed strong for maybe thirty seconds… but not as intense as the mint toothpaste nor the menthol nor the icy hot by any stretch, and I felt it would not give me the ‘fire in the hole’ I was looking for.

I was playing back and forth between my favourite vibrating dildo and the Hitachi by this point (and also had the ben wa balls in with a silver bullet tucked beside them), working with staying on my back for all of this and building up the nerve to go with the icy hot.  Menthol rub came first, spread liberally all around and I played with that for a good bit before finally hopping up to get the icy hot.

A tiny dab’ll do ya.  I went with that at first and gamely shoved the dildo home; within minute or two it produced a very nice response, indeed I nearly passed out as I came with very little effort on my part considering I was in a non-preferred position.  After a bit of a rest I decided to give it another go; this time I used substantially more…

Fire in the hole, indeed.  And another good response.  Really no pain to it, surprisingly enough; for me it was just a gentle warmth with a feeling of pressure (swelling perhaps?).  YMMV… or should I say, “Don’t try this at home, folks!”?  I do tend to go where angels fear to tread in terms of sensation play…

I have one more recent acquisition which I plan to try out the next time I have the house to myself, which may happen at the end of this month.  It’s rather small, so I don’t see it as being a replacement for the candles so much as an adjunct; if I could find the baking paraffin in quantity the way I used to be able to I would get a crock pot for the purpose but this will be good to play with for now.

If anyone does know where I can lay hands on a large supply of plain paraffin, sing out! a Dragon would be indeed grateful…

Dragon Drabble

 The technogeek in me is well pleased. :)

I had been waiting for Apple and our service provider to shake hands over the iPhone ever since the device had made its appearance; I've had the iPod Touch for awhile, going from 8G up to 32G -- which has been invaluable both professionally and as a musician -- but craved the additional accessibility the iPhone would provide.  It's just as well that I had to wait; the iPhone is now in its 4th generation, so the 'kinks' of earlier versions have been worked out.  Taz stymied me a bit further, as initially he did not want to have to pay for a data plan monthly, but finally capitulated when I presented a well-reasoned case to him and gifted my previous iTouches to my daughters.

It's. Been. Awesome.

I laugh when I think how excited I was (many years ago now, LOL), when the 1200-baud modem came out for the Commodore 64! and can remember my first brush with 'vultures' (my term for those who swoop in looking for a 'quick fix') on QuantumLink along with the friends I made online back then, one of whom I still have contact with on Facebook. :)

So...

The sensation quest has been stayed for the time being, as this poor Dragon has been swamped with work and a very intense (but very enlightening) course in school.  I did, however, have opportunity to try some IcyHot this week...

...which is probably the first time I've ever considered reaching for the shower nozzle to rinse it all out!!  It took a couple of seconds to 'hit' me, and then I just had to grip the edge of the counter for a minute or two in absolute agony before I could play.  A couple of orgasms later it felt much better...! it's gone into the toy bag to play with again, carefully :)

Last evening, I came all over girly, which is something I never do...!  I had to replace one of the captive bead earrings in my upper ear after it got whacked out (quite innocently) in a wrestling match with my older daughter, so I took the kids to the mall last night to find something in the rainbow persuasion that I could put in my ear myself (captive beads are beyond me!).  I found quite the stash at my favorite earring store...

and between those and a purchase elsewhere in the mall, managed to accessorize quite well in the rainbow theme :)

I've never been one much for jewelry, but piercings are a different matter... and the bracelets were just a cool find I couldn't pass up!

I also found a few miscellaneous goodies in the dollar store to add to the toy bag... when next I play with wax, I want to try brushing/spreading it on, so I picked up some cheap paintbrushes and spatulas.  I may get that opportunity tomorrow (provided I finish all my schoolwork!) as the rest of the family take a day trip out to New Jersey...

For now, back to the dungeon (the work one, not the play one!)... but looking forward to having some kinky fun soon...!

Stocking the Toy Bag

Got a bit of an ego-boo today from an unexpected quarter... I was unlocking the door to my office when a department head from another division in our agency jogged up to me and said, "Hey, K, have something funny to tell you!"  I encouraged him to go ahead and he told me that one of the last times I came in to the building he had to ask someone who I was as he didn't recognize me... "That's K???" he related with obvious incredulity... "Just wanted to let you know you look really, really good!!"

*blush* Go me...

Ayep, that's what a life of kink will do for you... LOL

So... Santa came early to Worcester County (or late, depending on how you look at it haha)... this is what I found in my post box this week...

I had managed to find a vendor of chains in rainbow titanium (same as the nip rings) and they were really speedy in delivery!! waiting for one more piece that will link the two separate chains and then there'll be pics of the whole assemblage... ;)

And yes, the rope finally came... so I had to play...

Did I mention I love to tie knots??? hahahaha... I really, really enjoyed this and am looking forward to delving further into it.

Being the sensation slut that I am, I traded info on toy bag contents with a new friend on FetLife and went on an expedition today to pick up some more items:

...when I went to checkout, the clerk looked over my stash and asked, "School project?"  Uuuhh, yeah, that's right... LOL.   I agreed with him on that point and that the items looked rather random... if he only knew!!! *snicker*

The Hitachi I actually picked up a little further down the road... where I also completed an assignment for my Rider, looking for suitable 'boys toys', great fun!!  I felt quite naughty loitering at that wall of the shop, picking through the wares and writing down info in my writing journal :)

Gee, you'll never guess what I'll be doing tonight...

It'll be a great long weekend!!!!!!!

Workin' the Toy Bag

Would anyone like some snow, cheap?  We have plenty here in central New England, and more coming.  Much more.  There literally is no place to put it all.  Today was yet another day of white-knuckle driving as I spent two hours coming home from an early morning site visit for work; tomorrow I won’t even leave the house as we’re expecting another sizeable blizzard.  I think I saw penguins moving in down the block from us…

Working from home definitely has its advantages.  Dress code, for instance.  None of my colleagues need know that I am answering their emails and filing my reports in a fleece robe and little else.  Nor that I’m employing some elements from my toy bag as I work!

I had been remiss in my butt training while rehearsing for the show last month, so when I arrived home today I pulled out the trainer kit.  I’m still on the smallest one and can’t yet tolerate it for more than an hour at a time, but I can afford to be patient.

Still also having fun with the ben wa balls (thanks, Kelley!) and yes, there’s a retrieval cord attached should I wish to introduce them to my backside… not such a concern for the vaginal route, being that it’s a finite space.  There are balls inside the balls, which make an absolutely awesome combination with a well-placed vibrator (after work hours!).

Unfortunately, I am not wearing nip rings yet... apparently I ordered the wrong size, being the noob I am.  So another order has gone out and I should be good for next week.  In the meantime, the rings I received haven't gone to waste, two are in my ears now.

Back to work...

Performance High

There is something so freeing and empowering about adopting a character and bringing it to life on the stage.  Doubly so if one is rather painfully shy in real life.  (My theatre mates don’t see me as that at all, of course; they know what I’m capable of and they can access it rather quickly!)

I was so ‘into the feeling’ on opening night in fact, that I suffered a small emergency at intermission.  Thank goodness for a good buddy who’s also an EMT in the audience…  I retained enough coherence to have him summoned and he pulled me back up to snuff after a few harrowing minutes so the show could go on.  :s

The other part of riding that ‘rush’ is that it makes me want to ‘play’… unfortunately I was in no shape when I finally got home on opening night, so I had to table things until I had some sleep and real food.  The next day though… definitely on for some fun!!

It’s all about sensation this weekend!  While dressing I applied some medicated chest rub (read: menthol!) to the nether regions and reinforced the experience with a sanitary pad (nota bene guys, this is a trick we girls know – or should – in that the ‘leak guard’ protection in most of these pads keeps whatever you’ve applied to the genital area from leeching out and evaporating).  To fully reap the benefits of this ‘all-day’ experience, you occasionally ‘drop your drawers’, exposing the area to air, and when you pull your pants back up, voilà!   It’s as if you re-applied it… and if you’ve been sweating from your exertions, so much the better!

During the break between shows someone tossed me a couple (slightly used) chemical hand-warmers (the kind you activate and slip into your gloves)… after playing with them for a bit I tucked them into my bra, which felt quite good.  I didn’t realise until later – I popped them out at bedtime without looking, but when I took off my bra this morning to shower I noted that I've apparently been branded.  Ooops… :s

After the last show, we were out quite late to celebrate a good run.  Still, I was up for some fun when we got home… but not yet ready to tackle the big piece I’ve planned for (that will come tonight) so… welcome to more elements of my toy bag.  Yes, they have names… !  The ‘Rabbit’ doesn’t really see that much action unless I’m fairly patient.  The ‘Grape Lollipop’ (yes, it really smells like grape – WTF??!) is nice for practicing certain skills, but when I really want to get the job done? I reach for ‘Old Faithful’ :)

Tonight I plan to break out the candles and have a little fun with hot wax… perhaps there’ll be pictures…

The Toy Bag

I’ve always been rather “loose” in the joints, and as I’m proving here, I can bring certain unconventional body parts in range of my mouth (can also lick my elbow and suck my toes, go me!).  I cannot get to the juncture of the thighs, however, and more’s the pity.  Imagine for a moment if we all could do that, much as a cat does… *eyes glaze over*

The “solo fun” has started… and I might snap pics along the way… I’ve not been much for such photography in the past, but I find I’m appreciating more imagery these days that I’m seeing around me, and it was certainly fun trying to pose for the pic above.  One pic (or several!) I’m absolutely looking forward to snapping is when I try some shibari for the first time; I was talking to a gentleman online about it, and he kindly gave me information on the proper size and length of rope as well as a good link to more information.  I’m waiting for my rope to arrive now, very exciting!  Granted, it’s usually done with a partner, but in watching a video of the making of a body harness I realised that that at least I could do on my own.  Tying knots is something I do well; I’m rather infamous for it, actually…

Other items in the “Toy Bag” so far include a set of trainer plugs and anal beads, as well as a few dildoes and bullets (vibrating, natch!).  Still looking about for my scalpel set… the kids haven’t started practicing vivisection (yet) so I know it hasn’t fallen into their hands at least.

I’m not one for clamps of any kind, but I am strongly considering some rings in key places with fine chain that could go through them.  My breastfeeding days are done, so I’m not worried about the scarring I’ve heard mentioned; I’m still considering how I want to proceed “below the belt.”  Right now I’m waiting to make sure I won’t need a bit more surgery in the near future; a friend mentioned how an intimate piercing was removed without her knowledge during a routine (but sedated) procedure and I did have a bit of a fight with the OR staff for some jewellery I wasn’t willing to remove for my last sojourn under the knife.  It takes piercings some time to “fix” and I wouldn’t want to risk having one close up before I could get something re-inserted.

So I’ve got a good start lined up, I think… granted there are many things that don’t translate well to solo… one can’t ever tickle oneself, for example.  But I’m hoping it’s enough to get some exploration started, gain some experience and confidence, and have fun in the process.